Am I hard to love?
[She]
Hey Mirror… I feel like I can’t be loved.
[Mirror]
Do you see the difference between being unlovable… and just being with people who were never right for you?
[She]
Well… yes, but I feel like I’m failing at dating, and it only proves that maybe I’m just not enough to be loved.
[Mirror]
Alright, then answer this: deep down, did you feel truly fulfilled in those relationships? Did they love you the way you needed? Did they communicate like grown-ups?
[She]
…No!
[Mirror]
Stop treating their inability to love you well as proof that you’re unlovable.
It’s not your job to make the wrong person right.
[She]
But… what if I never find the right person… the one who can love me right?
[Mirror]
Do you even realize there are people hoping to meet someone just like you?
Who are wishing for a love like the one you can give.
Dreaming of someone with your kind of energy —
someone who lives life, dresses, smiles, talks, and loves the way you do.
[She]
Really?
[Mirror]
Yes! So… what will you choose? You can keep crying over the ones who were never a good match for you —
or you can finally stop, and make space for someone who can love you the way you deserve.
[She]
So… I’m not hard to love?
[Mirror]
You’re the easiest to love — once you stop giving your heart to people who don’t know what to do with it.